Taking a Look at Those in Your Circle: Who are the True Keepers?

27 Jan

Sometimes it’s necessary to take a good, long hard look at those in your “circle”. Who are the ones who are really “there” even when there is somewhere else they probably would rather be, those you never have to question if you can depend on them, the first ones that come to your mind when you need help or a shoulder, the ones that never question when you ask them for something, those who never hesitate, those who actually return your calls, those who you know honestly love you and want the best for you? It’s great when people “make time” for you but those who never even have to check their schedules in the first place are who you hold the closest, the ones who never require or request anything from you other than maybe your friendship and love. THOSE are who you hang on to. Everyone else is dead weight who are people who probably wouldn’t even notice if you stopped calling, stopped doing things for them and cut them loose. Cutting someone loose isn’t always a bad thing, sometimes it’s a necessity. Rethink who you spend your time on, time is a valued commodity and we have no idea how much of it we have so spend it on those that are truly worth it. Time is something you can never get back, it’s your greatest gift. Who do you spend yours on? Do they spend their time on you? 

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